Saturday, January 26, 2013

my grandpa



April 22, 1944–January 23, 2013 After a brief hospitalization, Brian passed away peacefully with his wife of 47 years holding his hand. He spent his final days enjoying the company of his wife, children, and granddaughter.

Brian leaves behind his wife, Roberta. He will be missed by his children Mike and Stephanie (Brad), and grandchildren Trinity and Atticus Orion. Brian is also survived by his brother, Wayne (Joan). Brian was preceded in death by his parents and his sister.

After a long and distinguished career at TELUS (formerly BC Tel), Brian retired in 2002. He then spent his days relaxing on his back porch knowing that he lived in the most beautiful part of the world. He lived his entire life in Victoria and had no interest in going elsewhere. He followed politics closely and spoke knowledgeably of current events until his last day. His favourite activity was walking his very best friend, Harley, in Victoria’s many parks. Harley died less than one week before Brian; neither could have lived without the other. 


Sincerest thanks to the nurses, doctors, and staff at the Royal Jubilee Hospital (Surgical 7N ward) for their compassion and the excellent care they provided to keep Brian comfortable and happy in his final days. In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to the Victoria Hospitals Foundation at 1952 Bay Street, Victoria BC, V8R 1J8.
A Graveside Service will be held at 1:00pm on Friday, February 1, 2013, at Royal Oak Burial Park. Plans for a celebration of Brian’s life will be announced at a later date. Please see http://www.mccallbros.com/brian-harold-gray/ for more information.

Monday, January 7, 2013

140 (plus 1)


Tomorrow is the first of 140 days of the legislative session.

My dad took me to the Capitol to have lunch with my mom today. We met her at her office and we walked through the super-secret underground tunnel. I ran the whole way, like a train barreling through a mineshaft, because the tunnels slope in a most fascinating manner. It would be ideal if I could take my tricycle there but I am supposing that might interfere with business.

They have decent food in the Capitol prepared by real chefs. My dad had the Monday special (catfish and vegetables) and my mom and I shared grilled cheese and french fries. My beverage of choice was coconut water. My dad had a white chocolate mocha. Had it been Thursday, we could have enjoyed the sundae bar. Alas, I am sure that I will have many, too MANY, opportunities to dine there in the upcoming months!

The politician in me emerged while we were eating lunch. I went over to the next table and said "my name is Atticus. I am three. What's your name? How old are you?" And, just like that, I won some votes.

After lunch, my mom returned to work and my dad took me on a tour of the Capitol.